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Coping with Stress: Reintegration and Redeployment

January 20, 2012

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Coping with Stress: Reintegration and Redeployment

My husband has never been a man to sit still. He has to be constantly doing something. This personality trait also makes him a fantastic husband. If I cook and set everything out for dinner, he takes the lead afterwards by doing the dishes. Because we have small children, there is always a short period [...]

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Another well timed deployment note

December 16, 2011

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Another well timed deployment note

Can’t forget to treat yourself… these should be yummy… I love you too darlin… How did you know {4 months ago} I needed to find this during nap time today? . In case you missed them, here are links to the other notes I’ve found during this deployment. ((Love Note #1 - Love Note #2 - Love Note #3 - Love [...]

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Another love note from R&R

December 2, 2011

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Another love note from R&R

It’s been 4 months since R&R… The weather here in Germany is starting to get cold, which means it’s time to break out the winter footwear that lives on the top shelf of my closet. I keep them stuffed with plastic bags to maintain their shape… Wait a second… Yup… I found another one! I [...]

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A big hug from your sweetheart

October 26, 2011

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A big hug from your sweetheart

One of the things my husband does before a separation is prepare our household for Y2K. I think much of this is because in our 7 years of marriage whenever he is called away with the Army, I am usually pregnant, nursing a baby, chasing a small child, or all of the above. So in [...]

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I love your pie

October 14, 2011

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I love your pie

This morning I innocently opened up the cabinet to put away the strainer… Wait a minute… Is that… Thanks darlin – How did you know I need some hugs and kisses from you today? I Love You.   In case you missed them, here are links to the other notes I’ve found this deployment. (( Love [...]

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Thanks for the pep talk darlin

September 22, 2011

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Thanks for the pep talk darlin

Seth had his R&R visit over a month ago. And it took me this long to notice something different in the lunch meat drawer… Deployment Love Note #7 Thanks for the pep talk darlin. I’ll keep that in mind!   (( Love Note #1 - Love Note #2 - Love Note #3 )) ((Love Note #4 – Love Note [...]

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Sunrise coffee with my deployed husband

August 29, 2011

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Sunrise coffee with my deployed husband

Today’s sunrise was especially beautiful… mostly because I got to have coffee with my beloved… I love you too darlin. Thank you for leaving me sweet notes to discover while you are in Afghanistan. … What are your creative ideas for loving your spouse when you’re apart? How long have you been married? Do you [...]

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Deployment Love Note #5

August 18, 2011

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Deployment Love Note #5

After dropping Seth off at the train station, we headed home to enjoy a quiet day at home. Madeline has been playing with the idea of potty training for a while now – so with all the traveling and transitioning of R&R behind us, I started asking her if she wanted to use the Elmo [...]

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Burg Ristorante at the Lichtenberg Castle

August 4, 2011

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Burg Ristorante at the Lichtenberg Castle

I was so excited for our date together… an evening without little people at Burg Lichtenberg with my beloved… And since I was wearing a dress, and heels, and makeup for the first time in 6 months… hubby thought it would gallant of him to open the door for me… ahem… from the inside… We [...]

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Date night: Sometimes it’s nice…

August 3, 2011

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Date night: Sometimes it’s nice…

Sometimes it’s nice to let someone else tuck them in… Sometimes it’s nice to dress up just for fun… Sometimes it’s nice to just stop and notice… how beautiful things are… when you’re not in a hurry to be home for bedtime… When is the last time you went out on a date with your [...]

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